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Jay Earley adapts Internal Family Systems (IFS) into a structured self-therapy journey, guiding you to identify parts (exiles carrying pain, protectors like critics or avoiders), access your calm core Self, and facilitate inner dialogues that unburden old wounds. While No Bad Parts by Richard Schwartz — who developed IFS — takes a more philosophical overview, this is a hands-on manual with worksheets, troubleshooting charts, and session templates so anyone can practice solo, turning abstract multiplicity into practical emotional integration.

What you can get from reading it

  • Detailed session maps: start with "parts mapping" exercises to chart your system, then follow 6F's (find, focus, explore, retrieve, unburden, integrate) for repeatable self-led work.
  • Troubleshooting guides for common blocks like "no Self energy" or stubborn protectors, with specific questions to ask parts ("What's the worst that could happen?") that unlock stuck sessions.
  • Worksheets for blending detection, Self-like qualities assessment, and tracking protector-exile dynamics, making abstract IFS concrete and trackable.
  • Advanced techniques like working with extreme parts (suicidal, addictive) or legacy burdens (ancestral intergenerational trauma) through guided dialogues anyone can follow.
  • Long-term wholeness roadmap: from crisis management to lifestyle integration, with daily check-ins to keep Self leading amid life's triggers.

About the author

Jay Earley, M.S., co-owner of Self Capacities and creator of Self-Therapy Journey, authored the first IFS self-help workbook after years leading therapy groups, developing IFS software, and training facilitators worldwide. His software engineering background plus dedication to democratizing IFS — making it therapist-optional through structured tools — positions him as a practical pioneer translating Schwartz's model into accessible self-guided healing.

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Jay Earley
Step-by-step workbook to lead your personal IFS sessions — meeting every inner part with compassion to heal trauma & restore wholeness.
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