Jay Earley adapts Internal Family Systems (IFS) into a structured self-therapy journey, guiding you to identify parts (exiles carrying pain, protectors like critics or avoiders), access your calm core Self, and facilitate inner dialogues that unburden old wounds. While No Bad Parts by Richard Schwartz — who developed IFS — takes a more philosophical overview, this is a hands-on manual with worksheets, troubleshooting charts, and session templates so anyone can practice solo, turning abstract multiplicity into practical emotional integration.
Jay Earley, M.S., co-owner of Self Capacities and creator of Self-Therapy Journey, authored the first IFS self-help workbook after years leading therapy groups, developing IFS software, and training facilitators worldwide. His software engineering background plus dedication to democratizing IFS — making it therapist-optional through structured tools — positions him as a practical pioneer translating Schwartz's model into accessible self-guided healing.
Use these while you give it a go . . .

Befriend your heaviest emotion — give it a voice, cultivate a relationship, and regain your agency.

Downloadable PDF to reference while you create a relationship with your emotions.
Explore the topic further . . .

Meet your "parts of self" — the inner critic, addict, people-pleaser, and wounded child — not as problems to fix, but as parts longing for your care with the Internal Family Systems (IFS) model.

Explore how personal & ancestral experiences (environmental factors, emotions, and trauma) may be influencing your physical & mental health through alterations in gene expression.

Optional writing meditation

Open lines of communication to spirits, cleanse ancestral lines and jinn spirits, engage with elders, practice divination rituals & ceremonies, and more.

Care for “little you” by giving them space to be heard, felt, and nurtured in the ways you needed as a child — then gently reparent, so together you can begin to restore a sense of safety and love.

A tender Buddhist invitation to embrace your wounded inner child through mindful recognition breaths, hugging meditation, and compassionate self-dialogue — turning old pain into present peace.

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