📚 Reconciliation: Healing the Inner Child by Thich Nhat Hanh

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Your inner child carries the unhealed hurts of childhood — the anger from feeling unseen, the fear from harsh words, the sadness from abandonment — and Thich Nhat Hanh teaches that reconciliation starts by recognizing this child lives in you still, reacting through adult triggers

With Plum Village gentleness, he offers breath practices, letter-writing to your younger self, and "hugging meditation" to hold that child tenderly, transforming resentment into understanding, not just for yourself but for strained family ties.​

What you can get from reading it

  • Breathing in "I see you" and out "I smile to you" creates an immediate felt sense of presence with your hurt child self, distinct from talk therapy's endless analysis.​
  • Hugging meditation — three mindful breaths holding your inner child alive, precious, and connected — dissolves abandonment terror in minutes, far gentler than cognitive reframes.​
  • Letter exchanges between adult you and child you (apologies, promises, reassurances) externalize internal conflict, healing without reliving trauma memories.​
  • Viewing anger as "inner child energy" you breathe into peace reveals its hidden sadness, breaking reactivity cycles where most books just label it "bad."​
  • Extending compassion to parents through mindful listening transforms family resentment into mutual understanding, uniquely blending self-healing with relational repair.

About the author

Thich Nhat Hanh, Vietnamese Zen Buddhist monk exiled for peace activism during the Vietnam War, founded Plum Village — the largest Buddhist monastery in Europe — and authored 100+ books blending mindfulness with healing after surviving bombs, loss, and displacement. His lived wisdom, from war orphanages to global retreats, infuses this work with profound tenderness for the inner child's universal longing to be held and seen.

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Reconciliation: Healing the Inner Child

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Thich Nhat Hanh
A tender Buddhist invitation to embrace your wounded inner child through mindful recognition breaths, hugging meditation, and compassionate self-dialogue — turning old pain into present peace.
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